Saturday, September 7, 2013

Bees!

And when I say bees, I mean LOTS of bees!

We found out Sunday morning that we had a HUGE cluster of bees living on one of our trees in our front yard.  Yes, on.  This specific tree is a young fellow, which broke and fell over after one of the stakes snapped (not sure how that happened either), but has since come back to life with many trunks.  We still have yet to get around to pruning it.......

But back to the bees!


Do you see them all clustered on top of each other?  This was only a small section of them.  This was the bottom, and it was a lot longer, maybe 3 times as long, and even wider than this in the middle.  I can't even begin to guess how many bees there were in our tree.  Thankfully none were flying around, that we could see.  But ICK!  I do not want millions of bees living in my front yard.  No thank you.

Mind you, this was a Sunday.  And the next day was Labor Day, a holiday.  So I left a message for our normal pest control people, in case they had an someone on call or something.  And then I Googled bee removal people in our area and found one that seemed like they knew what they were doing, and they had emergency removal, as in during nights and weekends.  So I gave them a call and talked to a guy, and my first question was how much do you charge for removal.  And his answer was... long.  He began to tell me what they would do to get rid of the bees and to take extra care in making sure they don't come back, and about all these different [apparently safe] chemicals and procedures to extinguish them.  After his long explanation he said it would cost about $500.  WHAT?!  Well, no.  We told him we'd call him back.  We wanted a second opinion, and one we could trust!

Well I called my dad and he told me some things, including that sometimes bees will live in a temporary cluster around the queen when they are in the process of moving from one place to another, and also that they usually will find residence in somewhere protected, like an abandoned couch or an exterior house wall, not likely in a young tree with flimsy limbs.  So we included this situation about the bees in our prayers that night, that they might just be a temporary cluster and go away on their own, or that we would know what to do to get rid of them at a reasonable cost, and how to handle it in the right time frame.  And we went to bed.

And when we got up in the morning, the bees were still there.  :(  I called a guy my parents know who does exterminating and left a message for him.  But then we left for Phoenix for a baseball game and didn't think about it.  And when we got home and pulled up to our house, we peered deep into the contents of the tree to try to see if we could see any bees in it (it's a very leafy and un-pruned tree) and to our surprise, disbelief, and GREAT JOY...  

They had gone!  No more bees!  Not a single one!  None!  Not a trace!!!

Hallelujah!  I was just about jumping for joy in my seat!

Of course we thanked our Father in Heaven that night, for our safety in this situation and that we didn't have to spend anymore money and that the whole thing just resolved itself, and without any incident (that we know of).  I know it's kind of a small thing, but we really were blessed.  Maybe it's a little silly, but it's just another thing that adds to my testimony that God lives and He knows me and my family and loves us and helps us through this journey of our life on Earth.  This circumstance may have been insignificant compared to a lot of other things, but it mattered to us, and so it mattered to Him.  And that's the best part.  I know I matter to Him.  And that makes me love Him even more!  It's like any relationship, when you show someone that they matter to you, it makes them appreciate you and then they return the favor and from there it's just an upward spiral and a positive chain of actions.

We matter.  Our prayers are heard.  Our prayers are answered, not always in the way or time that we want or expect, but they are answered.  We are loved, beyond any measure we can imagine!

"My dear brothers and sisters, it may be true that man is nothing in comparison to the greatness of the universe. At times we may even feel insignificant, invisible, alone, or forgotten. But always remember—you matter to Him! ... 
"Brothers and sisters, the most powerful Being in the universe is the Father of your spirit. He knows you. He loves you with a perfect love. 
"God sees you not only as a mortal being on a small planet who lives for a brief season—He sees you as His child. He sees you as the being you are capable and designed to become. He wants you to know that you matter to Him."
- Dieter F Uchtdorf

Thursday, September 5, 2013

Labor Day

We spent our Labor Day at a DBacks baseball game in Phoenix with Grammy and Grampy (hehe) and some friends.  Sadly, we lost, but we looked cute and had fun anyway!

This hat was a gift from Grandma Susie


We sent our photo in and got on the big screen!



And then we went over to Grandma and Grandpa's house for dinner, and Eli sat in his very own chair at the table!  (That I think Grandpa made when we were little.)


It was a nice day.  :)

Wednesday, September 4, 2013

I Am Happy Where I Am

The first couple weeks of Eli's life were difficult for me.  All I wanted was to hold him, to keep him to myself, and I wanted him to stay exactly how he was, to never get bigger or grow up.  It would make me want to cry when people told me that he was getting big -- He was my little baby and so special to me and I wanted it to stay that way forever!

Thankfully I emerged from those baby blues.  Because Eli has been growing, getting bigger, and he's just as cute!  I don't want to crawl into a hole with him every time someone says he's "getting so big" anymore.  I still don't want him to grow up, not too fast anyway, but I have to say that as each new stage has come for us, I love it even more than the last!  He is sooo cute and so fun!  Right now he is playing with everything, rolling everywhere, smiling and laughing a TON, and his personality is really starting to show!

I hope it will continue to be this way.  I know one day down the road (probably more than once) I'll look back and think about my little baby, and miss him like this.  But right now I'm trying to find the joy in each day as it is, and enjoy every moment with him in each stage of his life, as he learns new things and will no doubt begin to teach us.  And I'm loving every minute!

We are so blessed to have Eli in our lives, in our family!  We love him to the moon and back.  :)




"The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear?
the Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?"
Psalm 27:1

Tuesday, September 3, 2013

The End of an Era

Breastfeeding.  What an amazing thing!  Food for your child, great health benefits for both mom and baby, and it's free!  Who wouldn't want to breastfeed their baby?

It can be a struggle, in many ways.  Is it challenging?  Definitely.  Is it worth it?  Absolutely!  Do some mothers switch to formula earlier than expected, sooner than hoped?  Yes.

There are many reasons why a mother may choose (or have the choice thrust upon them) to formula-feed their baby.  And I just want to say that there is nothing wrong with that.

I never would have thought, but I am one of those mothers.

I'm starting to accept and come to terms with the fact that I'm done breastfeeding.  I've been trying to prolong it and avoid it, but it's time to accept it and move on.  This past Sunday was fast Sunday (the first Sunday of each month is designated in the Church as fast Sunday where members of the Church individually fast for two meals for a personal purpose) and since I've been breastfeeding I haven't been fasting, but since I wasn't really breastfeeding anymore I couldn't skip out this time.

I think it was Eli's surgery that started the downfall, or maybe that was my excuse.  The stress and lack of nursing and pumping instead was the beginning of it, followed by long out-of-town trips.

I'm proud to say that I lasted a solid 6 months.  I wanted to go a full year.  But I don't think Eli was getting enough to eat from nursing toward the end there.

My heart goes out to anyone to can't breastfeed or can't do it as long as they want to.  I always thought of course I would, and why wouldn't you?  But it's a lot harder than it seems.  And any mom who goes for it for however long deserves praise.  But any mom that doesn't shouldn't get the bad mom treatment either.  I feel bad that I won't be able to nurse Eli anymore.  And I feel like there are some people who look down on me for giving him formula instead.  But I have my reasons and I'm just trying to do the best I can for my son.  I didn't want to stop.  I probably should have tried harder, earlier.  I feel selfish for that part of me that wanted to stop.  It's such an internal tug of war.

All I've known is Eli needing me physically, when I was pregnant, when I was nursing.  It's strange thinking that he doesn't need me like that anymore.  And he won't ever again.  But he does still need me, in other ways.  So even though this is an end, it's also a beginning.

Eli is growing up.  He's learning lots of new things.  And he's doing so well!  He's such a great kid.  We have been so blessed to have been given him.  I know this is one of the biggest, most important purposes in my life, to have and raise and love a family, starting with Eli.  I love being a mom, being Eli's mom.  He is my world!  And I wouldn't change this for anything. :)

8/23/13

Monday, September 2, 2013

Utah Trip

At the beginning of August we took a little trip.  First stop: Utah.

 Eli enjoying his first sucker

Adam's sister is getting ready to serve a mission at Temple Square (how awesome is that?!) and she went through the temple for the first time while we were visiting.

Eli and Auntie Holly

Siblings!

Baczuk Family

Ferguson Family

Classic Ferguson Family Rank-Face Pose


Eli got to meet lots of family.  A few include:

Eli & Great Uncle Gregg
Eli and Great- Grandma & Grandpa Baczuk

Eli & Cousin (once removed) Jake

4 generations!
The other reason why we went up was because Adam's brother got married.  So happy for him and our new sis!












Third stop: South Dakota
Forth stop: Back to Colorado